Anxiety in relationships
anxious attachment, anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder, anxiety attack, abandonment issues, emotional trauma, trauma therapy, couples therapy, relationship therapy, relationship issues, attachment style, avoidant attachment Sara Allahverdi anxious attachment, anxiety, generalised anxiety disorder, anxiety attack, abandonment issues, emotional trauma, trauma therapy, couples therapy, relationship therapy, relationship issues, attachment style, avoidant attachment Sara Allahverdi

Anxiety in relationships

Anxiety is a common emotion amongst humans, because at its core, its function is to detect threats and danger and therefore protect us. Anxiety keeps us alert. There is a very natural level of anxiety that we need - to be cautious. But then there is another level of anxiety that can debilitate us, as it becomes a disproportionate response to our environment and reality.

In a relationship, anxiety can manifest in a way that challenges the dynamics between two people, leading to many things such as communication breakdown, distance/withdrawal, sexual difficulties and more.

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Family issues - enmeshment trauma: family won't respect my boundaries
anxious attachment, enmeshment, enmeshment trauma, childhood trauma, trauma therapy, trauma, emotional trauma, relationship issues, relationship therapy, family issues, family therapy, couples therapy, narcissism, parentification Sara Allahverdi anxious attachment, enmeshment, enmeshment trauma, childhood trauma, trauma therapy, trauma, emotional trauma, relationship issues, relationship therapy, family issues, family therapy, couples therapy, narcissism, parentification Sara Allahverdi

Family issues - enmeshment trauma: family won't respect my boundaries

Enmeshment trauma (also seen as over-intimacy or excessive closeness) is a type of emotional trauma that is caused by a lack of clear and healthy boundaries in the family environment and dynamics. Over-intimacy/enmeshment can happen when boundaries (typically between a parent and child) are blurred, overly diffused or even nonexistent. This leads to the child being emotionally fused with the parent's needs, wants, feelings or identity.

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